Ok, I finished the book. So if you haven't, don't read this post until later as I will discuss the book in toto.
First off, this wouldn't have been a useful book to me when I was a kid. I was an entirely different person from Keir in every way imaginable, and would never have ended up in a situation like he landed in. There were a few posts trying to assign blame, whether it be on Keir for being self-deceptive or Ray for not fulfilling parental duties, but what about society as an abstract force? Keir and his dad go out drinking and Keir gets served? Not only do they serve him, they know full well that he's a high school senior and condone his behavior. What about Ken's parents, who decide that it's ok to leave the house to their son for the weekend and tell him as long as they don't find out what goes on it's ok? While these may be alarmingly frequent occurences in the real world, let's not blame Keir for finding himself in a situation where he can get a wide assortment of drugs with no one telling him that it's wrong.
As for the football incident, I place no blame at all anywhere. It was an accident, these things happen. Keir can feel bad that it happened, and others can express sympathy for both the hurt boy and Keir, but this incident was not a result of any deliberate action, and was entirely an accident.
And now, to the 'inexcusable' act itself. Keir was stupid, this is beyond question. He was also drugged up quite nicely. And so was she. While his responsibility is to restrain himself and understand when 'no' means 'no', her responsibility was to either not end up in the situation or to be irrevocably firm. In that sense, they both failed. Again, we're not sure as to specifics because we get them first person. Did she in fact say 'no'? Did she in fact respond to Keir's overtures in a positive way? These are not excuses (his action is indeed 'inexcusable') but they are mitigating circumstances.
I can see quite clearly how this is supposed to resonate with younger readers. They are assumed to be in a world surrounded by temptation, bereft of moral guidance, and thrust into situations where they aren't able to make rational decisions. Parents are conspicously absent. Ray, the most present parent in the book, has fallen into the trap of trying to make friends with his kids before they have grown up. The very fact that Keir calls his dad 'Ray' indicates a level of informality and a lack of authority possessed by Ray over Keir's life. I of course know my parents' names, and those of my friends' parents, but it would seem horribly awkward and inappropriate to call any of them by their first names. Keir has no moral compass, no authority figure pointing the way, and thus he becomes excellent at rationalizing all that he does. After all, no one is telling him differently.
Well, that's enough for now. There's sure to be some good discussion in class Thursday!
-NJP
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